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Monday, May 3, 2010

Decoration 2010 - Hays Cemetery




Every year on the 1st Sunday in May we make the drive to Hayden, AL to the Hays Cemetery to visit all the gravesites of Clan Hay members come and gone. It's a great tradition that I wish more families would take time to do. Of course I don't know very many families that have SO many generations buried in one place.




The first generation of the Hay Clan to come to America was Stanwick Hays. He was born in Scotland in 1786, but I am not sure about the year he landed in South Carolina. I think it was the early 1800s. Anywho...he ended up in Hayden, AL with about 1800 arces. Slowly it was sold off or given to family members. He died in 1878 and was buried (with the traditional rock burial like in Braveheart) in Hayden.
My husband is the 7th generation from Stanwick and all previous generations are buried right there in one cemetery. You can start from the top of the hill were my in-laws have plots and trace the line back down the hill to Stanwick.

Papa Perry and Mimi standing by their headstone. They wanted to
make sure everything was taken care of so the kids wouldn't have to 
worry with it! Look closely, PapaPerry is actually pointing to
were he's gonna go!


Here's our whole crew for the day. From L to R.
Drew, Laura, Mimi, Miss Priss, PapaPerry, Papaw, Aunt Eloise,
David, D, Little Bit, Me and Cindy.

The gentleman that took our picture wasn't worried
about getting it centered!!
That's okay, at least he got all of us in the picture right!?!




PapaPerry and his little sister Eloise. Her son David drove
her down for the weekend from Saluda, North Carolina.
And we are all so glad they were able to make it.



PapaPerry looking around the old gravesites.




Little Bit actually posing for the camera.
Can you believe she got out of the car and said
"Okay Mommy, I'm ready for pictures!"


Miss Priss and Little Bit in their new dresses Mommy made!
Aren't they so cute!



Had to get a picture of the back of the dresses too.



More posing. You can get a pretty good idea of their little
personalities from this picture.



Little Bit, Drew and Miss Priss posing so they could
get down and RUN!!!





Time to leave. Laura taking all th kids back to the car.



Thankfully the rain held off and we were able to walk around the cemetery for a while. Unfortunately P was not able to come with us this year because of Guard. I hate when that happens.

After looking around we always go to Top Hat BBQ to eat. As usual the food was great and everyone enjoyed sitting around just talking. We'll be back again next year!




1 comment:

karmenpaynern34@hotmail.com said...

Hi. My name is Karmen Turner Payne. My great grand parents were Argie Jemima and Felix Houston Hays. My dad and grandfather are buried at the top of that hill and I have spent more than a few of those first Sundays at Hays Cemetary. Argie did not die until I was 25 and we left the cemetary and headed left to the old Hays home place on the right at the big curve until just a short few years ago. Please oh please tell me where you found Stanwick's History! it has been driving me mad to see all of these family trees out there that I KNOW aren't correct! Thanks. Your photos brought back memories! karmenpaynern34@hotmail.com